The Fowler-O’Sullivan Foundation

SELF-HELP AND PEER SUPPORT GROUP

Supporting families of missing loved ones and those who have been found.
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Self-Help and Peer Support Virtual Group Guidelines

Group members will:

1. Practice confidentiality.

  • What’s said here in each session stays here, who you hear in each session stays here,
    and please don’t use names of ‘outside’ people when sharing within the group.
  • Ensure you are in a private environment during this group. If you are not in a private environment, use earbuds/headphones and turn off your incoming video, to ensure anonymity and confidentiality for all.

2. Practice virtual group etiquette.

This includes:

  • Muting your microphone when you’re not speaking.
  • Turning your camera off if you want to smoke, vape, or eat.

Please use the hands up function when you’d like to be heard, remembering to put your hand down afterwards.

3. Create space for all to share.
Which includes holding back to make space for quieter people to participate.

4. Practice respect for all.
Including respecting differences of opinions and approaches to recovery, all forms of diversity and the rights of all people within the group to feel respected.

5. Use person-first language and speak from your own experience.
When talking about your experiences, avoid going into specific details that may trigger other group members.

6. Be mindful not to reinforce stigma in your language, for example, when talking about your own or someone else’s body size or shape, or about someone’s mental health status.

7. Be responsible for your own self-care.
You do not have to share if you do not want to and always feel free to pass if you’d like. If you need to step away from the group and practice self care, please do so. If you do need urgent support after the group, please let the facilitators know.

Peer Support Meeting Dates 2024

Each meeting is on the 3rd Tuesday of each month.

This is a free open group.

Jan 16, 2024 ~ Feb 20, 2024 ~ Mar 19, 2024

Apr 16, 2024 ~ May 21, 2024 ~ Jun 18, 2024

July 16, 2024 ~ Aug 20, 2024 ~ Sep 17, 2024

Oct 15, 2024 ~ Nov 19, 2024 ~ Dec 17, 2024

Recommended Reading and Videos:

In “The Myth of Closure: Ambiguous Loss in a Time of Pandemic and Change,” author
Pauline Boss examines how we can begin to cope with loss that cannot be resolved.

David Kessler, an expert on grief and loss, has assembled helpful articles, videos, and
other content on his grief-focused website.

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Facilitator

Maureen Trask

Facilitator
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Maureen Trask - Facilitator

Maureen was a long-time resident of Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada until she made Puslinch her home on May 2017. She has a BA in Psychology from Wilfrid Laurier University and is retired from a 40-year career in Information Technology. 

On Nov. 3, 2011, she was confronted with the most challenging situation of her life when her youngest son, Daniel, went missing. This set her on a journey of searching, not only for Daniel, but also for information and resources.  

During the early years, Maureen was shocked to discover the lack of support services for families like hers, along with little community understanding of what families needed. This put her on a path to helping families of the missing by facilitating peer support groups to share our lived experiences and to acknowledge our loved ones in a safe and caring space. 

She remains an advocate for families by raising awareness and providing training for those who can help support families. She is also actively engaged in collaborating with families, police, victim services, community agencies, and the media to introduce legislation and policy that will help the families of the missing on their journey of uncertainty and living with Ambiguous Loss.